Guys usually tend to flirt with women who are exactly their age or even ones who are younger. But then most the guys tend to lay off the older women. They think that they cannot match up to them. That is where you are wrong. Here are a few flirting tips for guys who want to flirt with older women.

o The very first point is to be honest. If you go tell her that you are older then what you are, she is going to find out. Also if you make up stuff and tell her, she will be able to tell. After all she’s far more experienced that you are in the dating world. Also don’t be very formal or even very casual either. If you are honest or not she’s going to listen to you, who you exactly are.

o The next part is to make her feel like she’s a lot younger. You can do this directly or you can even play it indirectly and say it. Act like she’s too young when it comes to driving and so on. Make these comments according to the environment that you are in with her.

o The next part is to accept that she is mature and then to compliment on that. Don’t say the usual things like “younger women aren’t mature enough or I don’t like the way younger women act”. Make it witty and try out like which will say that the older the woman the better. But don’t try and say this completely directly to her.

o The next part is to have a conversation which is intelligent. If you sound like you are a lot older than your actual age, she might just land up liking that. Include things which older people think are relevant while you flirt.

o You can also try and imagine that you are a student and that she is the teacher. Try and learn something from her. This is the top flirting tips for guys. You need to be a good student and use her help when you get it.

By: Ryan DRH

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There are countless reasons why a younger man might date an older woman from lust to love and many in between. Here’s a list of seven that are the most probable from this dating coach’s perspective.

1) For Lust
Maybe you’re just hot and he wants you. Not such a bad thing when you think about it. After all, nature has played a mean trick on humans with women reaching their sexual peak later in life and men reaching it earlier. So this is a way to balance things out! Not only that, but if a younger man finds you attractive, whether or not you go for it, his attention is flattering. Allow your self-esteem to rise as you feel like the attractive, alluring woman that you really are. Enjoy it!

2) For Fun
Cyndi Lauper says “Girls just want to have fun.” so go ahead and have some fun with that younger man who could be looking for the very same thing. Sometimes life brings you an opportunity just for the sake of a good time. Nothing wrong with that either. That’s what the movie “How Stella Got Her Groove Back” was all about. A fling with a young man brought Stella back to the joys of life.

3) To Escape the Ticking Bio Clock
Younger women in their 30′s are often worried about their biological clocks ticking away and with good reason. If you want to have children, time does run out at some point. But with an older woman, she is past thinking “family” or already has her family and so the pressure on that young man is off. With an older woman, he can actually skirt the whole family thing and just enjoy. And so can you.

4) For Status
Older women are more accomplished. Today many women have power jobs and make a boatload of ka-ching. And so, just like younger women who date older men, younger men are looking for the flip side of the traditional equation. And let’s face it, many of these “cougar-types” are looking for what older men have known for years. Dating younger will help keep you young and brings back the excitement.

Men have traditionally sought the company of younger women, also known as “arm candy.” Now it’s your turn. If you want candy, go get some.

5) For Oedipus
The term for this classic psychological motivation was coined by our friend Dr. Sigmund Freud. The Oedipus complex is actually based on Greek mythology and a tragic play by Socrates. The briefest explanation – when a young man seeks the love of his mother – but from another woman. Maybe he looks up to you. Maybe he appreciates your ability to nurture and the wisdom that only time can bring. Not so terrible really. It’s actually flattering to have someone look up to you. One of the best ways to learn life’s lessons is through a mentor and as you play the expert, you can enjoy the companionship of a younger man.

6) For Experience
A younger man who hasn’t been with a lot of women wants to quickly learn the ropes. That’s when a teacher could really help. Bingo! Some younger men date older women simply to gain experience. What a service you are doing for the younger women who he’ll come in contact with during his lifetime. Many people enjoy the teacher/student relationship. Just keep it out of the real classroom and you’ll be all set for an eye-opening and inspiring situation. Plus, this type of relationship gives you a chance to be in charge which for some is a real kick. Why not show someone younger the inside track on romantic relationships and have fun at the same time?

7) For Love
Last, but not least, the guy might be dating you for LOVE. Some younger men can’t help who they fall for. He saw you, was struck by your beauty and charm, and just fell head over heels. It happens. Really it does. Ask Aston Kutcher and Demi Moore, Katie Couric and Brooke Perlin, and so many others. It’s all the rage in Hollywood and for good reason. Because this May-December romance thing which was previously frowned upon and poo-pooed, has now become chic. Chemistry is something that cannot easily be explained. In addition, I say, let’s hear it for those younger men who have the good sense to fall for an older woman! They have excellent taste.

Stop fretting about what this younger guy sees in you, or what others think, and basque in the attention. You deserve every flattering, delicious moment, so sit back and count your blessings.

By: Ronnie Ann Ryan

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With over 300 million people living in the United States there is a growing trend of single people getting married after their 20. Increasingly, individuals are agreeing to settled down and get married in their mid to late 30 or in their 40. However, people in their 30 or older do not have the same social networks available to meet a potential partner in comparison to their 20. There are less and less single women and single men around us as we age. This becomes even truer as we become older and then connecting and finding someone becomes more and more difficult especially if we are seeking older single women and men of our age. As we have noticed, no longer is it just men marrying much younger women but older women are marrying younger men. The social norms that we are usually used to see in the United States are changing and has changed.

Usually when we reach the age of 30 or older, our tendency is to become more selective on whom we choose to have as friends. This is due to our maturity and life experiences that we begin to choose friends that complement our lives. During this stage, we have become more career oriented and now looking forward to the next stage, which means usually finding a long-term partner or someone that we can settled down with through marriage.

Interestingly enough, it is at this time that we realize and value of substance in a person as more attractive than shear looks alone. In our younger days, how cute or attractive a person was weighed heavily in our decision to date or become a partner. As we get older, our perception of the world changes and the way we judge our partner changes as well. Does he or she have a stable job, are we able to communicate at the same level, how is their personality, do they make me laugh, and do they know the importance of financial planning, would he or she make a great father or mother. So many other considerations are taken into account when selecting a partner after the age of 30. This is where online dating enables every one of us to screen out the basic criteria that we are looking for such as, educational level, type of job, hobbies, interests, etc.

Dating sites in the USA are enormously popular, with millions of people willing to pay for online dating services to meet their partner. Understandably, finding a partner for life is one of the most important decisions that you will make and spending money to find that person by exposing yourself to the world is worth considering especially when it could be a life changing event. Internet dating services vary from region to region or country to country, they are all relatively the same with people posting their profiles and receiving interests from other users who would like to connect. Regardless of the site, Free dating sites in the USA are exploding with new users looking for their ultimate relationship by sifting through the profiles of local singles not only in their area but also internationally.

Dating sites in the US are many because there is a huge demand from people that are looking for Romance, Companionship, a Date, Long-term Partner or Marriage. This is why online dating websites in the USA is here to stay and with more and more people become aware of the endless possibilities by these online dating sites, the number of people will be increasing tremendously.

By: Steve Nandca

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