It is a confusing time if you have fallen in love with an Irish girl but are not sure if she feels the same. Here are some pointers to help you out:

1. She will want you to meet her family and people that are closest to her in her life. Irish families are world renowned for their closeness, she will only introduce you to them if she is sure that you are Mr. Right. If you are dating for some time and have not even met a sister or brother, this is not a good sign. Observe her interactions with your friends, if she is enthusiastic, vibrant and animated it is a very good sign. She is attracted to you and wants to embrace your world and be involved in all the people in your circle.

2. She talks to you about things that she does not talk about with anybody else. You will actually begin to recognise traits of her personality that you never imagined she possessed, in fact no else will, she is becoming intimate with you! You will even notice that she has expressions, tones of voice, secret smiles that she uses only when she is around you.

3. She is interested in and begins to accompany you to events, hobbies and interests because they are simply a part of your world. This is a great sign because she wants to be with you all the time and partake in things that you like.

4. She constantly references the future, plans events or places that you can go to in the coming months. This reveals that she is beginning to plan your future together and that her world is starting to be absorbed by yours!

By: Russell Shortt

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There is one reason, above any other, why men decide to improve their communication skills with women.

It might not be politically correct, but I like to deal in facts, so even though I might offend a few feminists out there by revealing this, here goes nothing…

Almost all men get into learning about seduction so they can bed more girls!

There, I said it.

Now, that’s not to say that guys don’t want things OTHER than getting it on! By and large, lots of guys are look for girlfriends and wives, and genuinely want to settle down.

But initially, getting it on more is the motivating factor.

And seduction is the process by which a man goes about getting a piece. If you can’t seduce a woman, you can’t get her to sleep with you. It’s as simple as that.

As luck would have it, the process of seducing has a methodology to it. Applied correctly, it can produce good results again and again.

However, this process is long, and can take some time. It encompasses everything from meeting the girl, to dating her, to attracting her, and finally, getting her into bed.

The problem is with the closing for most guys. The actual seduction – where you close the deal, can be difficult because men often blow it before that happens. They can meet and get the dates, but this last part stymies many men.

In situations like this, you need to be building the seduction from the get-go, so you’re not suddenly trying to switch gears once date number one is coming to a close.

Real seduction is all about building up and sustaining PHYSICAL TENSION.

“What is this tension?” you may ask?

Well, simply put, physical tension is all amping up feelings of arousal, without letting them be satisfied.

Guys experience physical tension ALL THE TIME. All they need to do is see a pretty girl and start talking to her, and those feelings of arousal can barely be contained.

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The single life can easily make you feel as though you will NEVER get it right.  Too many bad dates,  too many jerks that don’t call you back,  and you might find yourself wondering if you will EVER find your Mr. Right.  And then there are your girlfriends that try and tell you that he does not exist,  you will never find him,  and that you should just give up or settle down with first guy that comes along.

That’s not the way that you want it to be,  and thankfully,  it’s not the way that it HAS to be.  There are quality men out there and they feel just like you.  You don’t have to keep on dating jerks and losers if you don’t want to.

Here are a few things you NEED to know when looking for Mr. Right:

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Body language is something that you do naturally, and really don’t think about it. The reason why it’s called body-language is because your simple mannerisms, and posture often dictate the way you feel inside. Often a person can say one thing, and their body language will convey something totally different.

As a matter of fact, the subconscious body language is something that most people pick up on and don’t even realize it. When you feel that somebody isn’t being quite truthful with you, it’s very possible that the body language was not congruent with what they were actually saying to you. By learning how to control your own body language, and read body language and others you will definitely improve your success with not only women, but everyone around you.

When it comes to body language in the dating scene, subtle is the way of the game. Little things can often mean quite larger things that often go unnoticed by men when it comes to women. For instance notice that brief eye contact you get from a woman passing by on the street, you know the one that lasts just a second longer than the usual. Perhaps there’s a slight smile going along with that eye contact. This alone can be an indicator of interest on the woman’s part. If you notice this while at a restaurant, or at a bar, it could mean the woman wants to be approached by you. However she may just be acting polite. You’re not going to know until you actually approach her, so don’t be shy, and make your way over to her immediately.

If when you would approach the single young lady, and all of a sudden she tenses up and crosses her legs, and her arms over her chest, this could be a sign that she is uncomfortable or threatened by you in some subconscious way. If that’s the case, take a small step back and be reassuring, and nonthreatening. If you notice that she’s reacting to your interaction positively, she will be making eye contact, and may “accidentally” brush you with some part of her body like her foot. If you notice for some reason that she touches your shirt, and comment on the softness of the fabric, keep in mind it might not be the shirt she’s admiring!

Body communication although subtle, often tells the truth. When you’re able to pick up on another persons energy by reading their body language, you will be far more successful in your interactions with women and people in general. You’ll be able to have a good idea what that person is thinking, simply by observing the way their body moves. Then by controlling your own body language, you could convey a sense of confidence, as well as easy going behavior by the way you lean up against the bar while drinking a beer.

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