It is entirely possible to attract a man via body language before you have even spoken to him- even from across the room!

Contrary to popular belief, the flirting that attracts men begins long before you open your mouth to speak.

The second a guy lays eyes on you, you begin to give off signals that can be interpreted by him and this is where the art of attraction begins…

Some men are unable to read body language, whereas others are highly susceptible to it. As a result, to attract a man you initially need to give off subtle signals and assess whether or not he has actually picked up on them via his body language.

If he has, then he will have began to mirror your own open body language as well as puffing out his chest, standing tall and narrowing his eyes when he looks at you.

If he does not appear to have noticed then you should increase the volume of your own body language, so to speak. In other words, you should increase your gestures of attraction. If he does not respond by the time that you have increased your body language to maximum before jumping on him, then either use the direct approach and ask, or leave it alone.

So, the basic guidelines are – too subtle and the man will miss your signals and too strong and the only thing that you will attract is the tag of stalker!

Here are some of the right body language signals you should use to attract a guy…

Smile Flick your hair Flutter your eyelashes Talk freely Tilt your head to listen Laugh Use open body language and small hand gestures Touch his arm lightly

And here are the things that you may do to give the WRONG signals, and these should obviously be avoided…

Maintain eye contact for too long Look elsewhere for too long Cross your arms Use expansive hand gestures Fiddle with your hands Wait for him to come to you Place your hands on your hips

Attracting men is an art that few have mastered and thus the majority of women do not get the guy that they want most of the time. Being clear about your feeling, but striking the right balance between flirty body language and coming on too strong is the most important thing, so make an effort to practice what you will say and do in that situation before actually trying it out!

And don’t get too worried about doing things wrong. Have some fun! Flirting is all about confidence, and if you treat it as something fun, you will become an expert in no time. A little bit of body language skills can go a long way!

By: Peta Fletcher

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Flirting is excused as a pastime by many men and women. It is among the strategies they employ to assure themselves that they still possess what it takes to play with words and play a game with an opposite sex friend or colleague. Flirting women use the flirting quotes to assess whether they are still appealing enough to attract a man. Many flirting men are very sure that flirting will not influence their lives. A witty conversation among adults, a compliment or a shared naughty joke does not necessarily translate into a romantic expectation. Many of them are flirtatious because they believe it is completely innocent. They trust themselves that they will hardly cross the boundary into the much forbidden territory. If the flirtation is innocent, do it as it can enrich your social life.

Flirting women should let their spouses know of their flirting activities. If flirting is done in the name of fun then the flirting men should let their women know what they indulge in it. If it does not go beyond the boundaries the spouse will be reasonable enough to accept the behavior. Incase the behavior ceases to be casual and innocent, stop it before it is too late. Extra marital affairs and other unwanted romantic relationships sprout from advanced flirting where sexual undertones are acquired. At this stage, it becomes very hard to stop at flirting quotes. The flirting is taken a step further which is very wrong. Normally, being flirtatious is spontaneous since it just happens as a response to a man/woman you find attractive.

Flirting men or women should always evaluate your personal motivation. Figure out honestly as to why you are always eager to flirt with a person of the opposite sex. Arrest things when the situation goes out of hand and do not make excuses. Avoid flirting which might eat in to your current relationship. For instance flirting women or men might pick the habit from the Internet. Web sites are notorious for offering people even married ones with an opportunity to flirt for free. Unfortunately the prime situation mostly gets out of hand with the flirting taking a different route. Many victims of online flirting entered the chat rooms in search of good flirting quotes and ended up getting hooked. How honest were the people to themselves? If they had addressed the question, the relationship break down would not have happened.

Actually, many married flirting men and women consciously venture into chat rooms in full knowledge of the implications. They ‘innocently’ enter into married and flirting dating sites but claim that they did not know they were doing anything bad. They give excuses such as boredom, a desire to have temporarily fun, their spouses lack of interest in sex among others. They admit to having registered in the sites in search of flirting quotes to spice up their relationship and save their marriage. Some married couples have the ability to flirt and overlook it while others feel betrayed even if there is no physical contact. Flirting women and men should figure out their spouses’ comfort levels and learn to respect them. If you are still single, flirt your way into an admirable romantic relationship.

By: Francis K Githinji

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Being able to flirt with men is easy for some women, and for others, not so much. If you want to be able to flirt with a guy and make him blush, then you have to know what it is that will make him react like that. Luckily for you, it’s really not that hard to flirt with a guy and make him want you as a woman.

Here are a few easy tips that you can use to flirt with men and make him want you:

1. Use your body language to flirt with him. Men will always pay attention to a woman that knows how to move her body in a way that is sexy and appealing. And no, you don’t have to move like a stripper to be sexy and appealing. Body language flirting connects on a whole different level, and you can easily make him feel like he just has to have you if you know how to use it right.

2. Laugh at his jokes. Just about every guy wants to be able to make a woman laugh, and if you laugh at his jokes in a natural way, then you will give him an ego boost, which is a GOOD thing. Don’t try too hard and overdo the laughing thing, as this will be a dead giveaway that you are probably faking it, and good damage that ego of his.

3. Touch him. Every guy likes, rather loves, to be touched by a woman. Simply touching him on the shoulder when he is talking to you should be more than enough to create some sparks and chemistry with a man. Just make sure that he does not interpret this the wrong way.

By: Alexandra Scott

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Do you already know how to flirt with men or do your flirting skills leave something to be desired? Is flirting the most natural thing in the world to you or do you always feel embarrassed when you even try to talk to a hot guy? Are you jealous of those girls who are able to flirt with even the most attractive of guys without thinking twice? It’s true that some girls seem to be born with the natural ability to flirt, but for some of us flirting is much more difficult. We have to learn this valuable dating tool the hard way and find it much more difficult to master the skills required. But flirting really isn’t all that complicated. It might not come completely naturally to you but that doesn’t mean you can’t pick it up relatively quickly. Anybody can learn how to flirt with men, just remember these three rules.

Smile

A smile can alter the whole appearance of your face, adding a twinkle to your eyes and drawing a guy’s attention towards your lips. A smile can be very powerful and can change the way we think about someone too. The seductive smile is also a very powerful tool if used correctly so be sure to smile as much as possible when flirting. If nothing else it will send out the message that you are pleased to be in a guy’s presence.

Eye contact

Making eye contact is flirting 101. If you forget everything else about how to flirt with men, remember this. Making regular eye contact with a guy will tell him that you are interested and make him feel closer to you.

Physical contact

It is important that you do not come on too strong when flirting with a guy but it’s ok to touch him every now and then. Touch his arm once in a while and make slight bodily contact. This will create the illusion of intimacy and let him know that you want to be closer to him.

Flirting might not come to you as naturally as it does to others but you shouldn’t let this ruin your fun. Just remember these three tips and you will know everything you need to know about how to flirt with men.

By: Tina L. Jones

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Are you a master or a disaster when it comes to flirting with men? Do you know what to say and what to do and to turn a crush into a potential date for this weekend? Do you know when to be subtle and when to be bold in your flirting tactics? If, until now, you still haven’t mastered the art of flirting then chances are your love life can use some improvement. Fortunately, flirting with men does not have to be rocket science and you can learn it with plenty of determination and practice.

Don’t give it away

The beauty of flirting with men is its subtlety-you can let him know that you like him without putting your pride on the line. Make sure that you remember this when planning your flirting strategy. The goal is to be suggestive and not slutty. It’s one thing to wear your freshly shampooed hair down and twirl it in your fingers, it’s another thing to wear a thong under your jeans and bend over so he can see.

Body talk

What you say with your body is just as important as what you say with your mouth. Sometimes, you may be putting forth a body language that is not at all inviting and you don’t even realize it. For instance, if you tend to cross your arms in front of your chest, this is a subconscious way of warding him off and putting up a shield in front of you.

Tease him

Once you know how to flirt with men and it has actually worked to your favor, don’t let your guard down so fast. Once you see that he has asked you out, don’t jump for joy or grovel at his feet. Remember, it was the mystery that got him to ask you out and it’s also the mystery that will keep him wanting more.

By: Tina L. Jones

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