Men are attracted to mystery, allure, and a challenge. These can all be captured in your flirty text messages and build the attraction unbelievably. To create mystery you have to remember it is sometimes what you don’t say that says the most. In other words when texting, don’t always answer his questions direct, be evasive, but friendly. This is a very successful technique in building mystery.

Response time is also a good way to build up the attraction. if you always reply right back, you become predictable. Don’t be predictable, wait before you reply. Depending on the message a couple of hours won’t hurt. Then when he finally does get your reply, which of course is going to be light and flirty, you better believe he is going to pay it more attention. Presto, you got his full attention. Think long term satisfaction girls, not instant gratification.

Less is always more in texting. I have to mention the perpetual texter. The one that replies right back or texts all day long. Do you really think guys find this attractive? Maybe it’s good for a quick fix for a few weeks, but trust me, it won’t go long term.

Playing on words is also a great way to send flirty text messages. You can be a little evil with this, yet he can’t come right out and say you were being evil. For example, he texts you a yes or no question. Your answer “I moist say no”. I guess you could call it subliminal talk to the penis. That really is exactly what it is. Learn to do this, and it gets his/her attention. Subtle yet sexy flirty text messages.

By: Robin Cockrell

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If you’re trying to figure out flirting for guys, first of all, good luck. See, women have been on the receiving end of flirtations ever since they lost their pigtails and braces. In other words, they’ve heard it all before. They’ve heard all the lines, the bad jokes, the come-ons. So the first piece of advice is that you’ve got to lose all those corny lines that a million guys have tried before, and that zero guys have succeeded with. Don’t even bother with these. All you’ll do is make the woman angry on the one hand, and you’ll be a laughing stock on the other hand. Do you like the image of a woman laughing at you? How about several woman laughing at you, and imitating you? I didn’t think so.

Flirting For Guys: Don’t Alienate Her!

So how do you manage flirting with her without alienating her? Well, you’ve got to be really creative, and just a bit crafty. Sometimes, you have to be covert. You’ve got to flirt without her knowing that you’re flirting with her. A guy friend of mine tried this. A hot lady was in the bookstore, and picked up a book by a famous author. She read the author’s name out loud. He responded to her that he knew of that author, mentioned some other books that the author wrote, gave her a sexy half smile, and walked away. In this way, he let her know that he was attracted to her literary sense, that he was on the same wavelength as her, and he had more information to share for a sexy lady if she chose to further pursue the issue, or him. He didn’t make her feel overpowered or cornered. He didn’t come off like a book snob. He simultaneously expressed his attraction, and expressed that he was a man worthy of her time.

There are a couple of other points in this flirting for guys scenario to look at. One is that he respected her boundaries. He didn’t make himself annoying by hanging around. Notice that in this scenario, he put his pitch out there, and then he walked away. Guys, it’s so important to know when to approach, and when to retreat. There are so many things in life that are all about timing. He knew and trusted that if things were meant to be between them, he’d see her again. But he wasn’t going to try to make it all happen in one conversation. Besides that, she was there to read. He was considerate enough to leave her to her reading.

Flirting For Guys: Human Nature

The second extra point is a simple lesson in human nature. Leave a person wanting. It’s a weird part of human nature, but if people feel that something is too available, they don’t want it. The more desirable something is, the more they’ll crave it. When you’re flirting with a woman, the point is to make her crave you. I promise you that if you’re too available, you’ll get put in the “friend zone”, where you’ll hang out with frustration forevermore. If you want to attract her, lay the bait, and leave. If she wants you, she’ll respond by pursuing you back. Then there’s no question as to whether she’s on board with you, because she came to you.

So here’s a couple of tips about flirting for guys. Try them, and you’ll have a much better time at things, and you’ll probably have more first dates than you can handle.

By: Jake McMurphy

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Would you like to learn to flirt like a pro? Do you get awkward around guys you like, and end up feeling like you made a fool of yourself? How many times have you kicked yourself for not having the courage to talk to a guy? Here are a few tips to get you over that awkward meeting, and let you learn to flirt with some confidence.

Flirt tactic #1 – Ask questions. If you show some interest in him, he’ll reciprocate. You can also avoid having to worry about what to say if you get him talking, instead.

Just remember not to be too nosy. You don’t want him to feel like you’re giving him an interview. Silence is ok every once in a while, but you can also find out what he likes if you just ask a few casual questions.

Flirt tactic #2 – Once you learn to flirt, you’ll know that you shouldn’t be afraid to give compliments. When you show that you like someone, they tend to like you back. So a little appreciation can really get you noticed.

This doesn’t mean that you should gush over him. A little praise goes a long way. All it takes is an “I’m impressed” eyebrow raise. Or an enthusiastic “nice!” in response to something he says or does.

Flirt tactic #3 – Treat him like you would anyone else. It will help to make you more comfortable if you pretend he’s just another random person. You don’t get nervous talking to your friends, for example, or the guy (or girl) behind the cash register at the store.

Remember how you talk to guys who are interested in you, but that you have no interest in? You’re nice and polite, but in a tolerant way, not a nervous way. You can afford to be interested in the conversation, because nothing’s at stake. Treat him like that!

It’s okay to feel nervous when you are talking to a guy you like. But you can learn to flirt with a little practice, and come across as cool and collected.

By: Tina L. Jones

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Would you like to learn how to get a guy to like you? Are you afraid that you don’t put yourself out there enough? Did your mother tell you to be prim and proper and not to stand out in a crowd? Growing up, you might have learned that the best way to get a guy was to be passive and let him find you. Well, that’s just not true anymore. With all of the girls out there looking for men, you have to stand out to get noticed. Read the following article to learn some new, updated advice.

The rules have changed since your mother was a teenager. Now, women have more choices and options. You can’t hope to stand back and let a man find you because nobody else is doing it and some other woman might walk off with the guy that was meant for you. You don’t want that to happen!

In the past, to get a guy you needed to be a good cook, a good housekeeper, and a good mother. You basically had to run the household while your husband worked and these were virtues that men looked for in women. Today, however, men want an equal and a partner. So what do you need to do?

First, you need to get some self confidence. Believe that you are a wonderful person and he will believe that, too. If you think that you are worth it and that you rock, other people will think it as well. It’s not about how you look, it’s about how you act. Some of the most beautiful women it he world lack self-confidence, while some of the “plain Janes” are able to go out and pick up any man they want because they know how to carry themselves.

You should also try to learn how guys think. When you are interested in a guy, watch him and observe how he acts around other women. See what he likes, what interests him, and what turns him off. That way, you not only know whether or not you might want to date him, but you can also get a good idea of how to act. You should never be something that you’re not, but sometimes women go out of their way to act a certain way when that isn’t them to begin with. For example, if you like a guy and he is kind of quiet and shy then jumping up on the bar and doing a striptease is probably not going to get him interested in you.

So, you need to have self-confidence, be yourself, and figure out how guys think. By doing these things, you will be able to get a guy. Good luck!

By: Tina L. Jones

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I’m going to share two techniques that I personally LOVE using when following up with a girl after having exchanged numbers. These are both field tested many times and are a great way to gain a lot interest through something dull, like a text message.

Are your texts doing more harm than good? Try these!

1. The Poem Technique

Message: “Creatively complete this poem, roses are red violets are blue..”

Girls absolutely LOVE this one because it’s that dumb, goofy, soap-opera, type message that girls love to respond to. Plus, and a HUGE plus at at that, you are SCREENING her with it. “Creatively” implies that you are judging her on her creativity. SO she is going to (and almost always does) make it funny. I’ve gotten responses like “this is the most random thing I’ve ever been asked to do…lol hi!” and “I don’t think anyone is as cute as you!” Some will definitely make you laugh. Then just transition into normal chat from there. Keep your texts short and to the point, and set up the meeting.

2. The Arnold Schwarzenegger Quiz Show

This technique is awesome, it really makes you realize how much FUN you can have with text message gaming.

Get around 5 or 6 girls who you haven’t had a second meeting with yet, but have gotten their numbers. And then let the games begin!

Message: “I’m about to offer you a once in a lifetime opportunity.”

Her: “OMG WHAT!?”(or something maybe a little less enthusiastic, but you get the idea)

Message: “You get to party with me tonight, but only if you can answer one really important question”

Now shes very intrigued what that “important question” is, and can only help but agree to the frame where she is hoping to win the chance to party with you, which is just awesome!

Her: “What is it??”

Message: “Name 6 Arnold Schwarzenegger movies”

Her: (If she’s SMART) “haha..um predator, terminator 1, 2, 3, running man, twins”

Message: “Nice you win..bonus points for running man hah”, (then give an invite for something fun that night)

Her: (If she’s NOT SMART) “What haha no way”

Message: “Sorry that’s incorrect, thank you for playing”

And then you DON’T hang out with them, at least not tonight.

That’s the best part about having 6 or more numbers to do this with. The ones who pass the test are now qualified to you and you know they are the FUN ones. Who wants to hang out with a girl who’s too cool to answer a funny text message question like that one anyway?

And now that you’ve blown her off, even though she knows you’re going out, she’s going to be looking to get validated by hanging out with you the next time.

Now you’re gaining interest with the text message instead of being just the same as other dudes. Have fun with these ones, I know I do.

Mad Dawg

By: Noah H

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