Many girls have decided that they will take the first step in getting their boyfriend to kiss them, even if they are not certain whether their boyfriend is ready or not.  If you happen to be one of these girls, or you are in a relationship with a boy and have been kissing a little, but you need more techniques on how to kiss him better, keep reading.  You will find more ideas and kissing techniques for girls.

The most important thing to do is to have cool breath and a spotless mouth.  This does not mean make an appointment with your dentist before each date, but swishing your mouth out with some Listerine before the date would be a great idea.  Your boyfriend will appreciate it when you are in an intimate moment and you whisper something meant to be sweet.  He will not choke on your bad breath and wish he had taken you to a mint bar instead of your favorite Italian place.

Boys know that girls love to wear lipstick, but they do not want to wear it, even if they get it from your lips.  Do them a favor and go with a lip gloss or Chap Stick, if you have to wear lipstick at all.  If you can just forget about it when you know you will be kissing your boyfriend, then go without it.  After all, the lip massage you will get is far better that any lipstick you could ever put on your lips.

Boys love it when girls flirt with them, even if you have been together for a while.  If you flirt, keep it light and fun, not hot and heavy.  You may not want to have a full on make out session, instead, just a few quick peck with a little open mouth kiss may do the job.  It would definitely keep him interested and wondering what you have planned next and if he will want to take you out again.  Remember, when you are flirting with him, laugh at his jokes, not at his awkwardness because it will make him self-conscious and he will wonder if he should move on to a different girl who will respect him more.

When you are ready to kiss him, make certain the moment is the right one.  You do not want to try to kiss him in the middle of a monster truck race.  Yes, your date may take you to a monster truck race, or to a NASCAR race.  Just go with it because you may find that you like him enough to ignore the dust, excited crowds, and loud vehicles.  He may even be sweet enough to buy you a stuffed animal with the event’s date on it. 

You never know, this may be the beginning of forever, if you give him a chance.  That perfect moment could come at the end of the night, when you both are so excited that his favorite driver won the race and he cannot stop talking about how great it was to have you there with him.  When he looks down at you and smiles, that is the perfect moment to cup his cheek and pull him gently into you for a good night kiss.

There is one thing to remember about using these kissing techniques for girls – use them only on the boy that you really like and want to have a relationship with.

By: Karina Sinclair

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Flirting online can be difficult. This mainly is because flirting has always been physical, involving body language such as eye-contact, smiling etc. Flirting through a modem therefore poses a certain challenge. But it can be done.

Flirting is an art that requires oozing confidence without being OTT (Over The Top). Many of the same things work for online flirting as in “brick and mortar” flirting. A delicate balance born of insight as well as experience is still required. Why?

Well, go too far and she will label you “slimy”. Don’t go far enough and she will label you “wimpy”. So how do you achieve that point half way between slimy and wimpy and do it online without using eye contact or body language?

1. Have fun! Flirting is playful. Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. But, don’t go too far with humor at the beginning. Try to gauge what kind of humor you can get away with.

2. Keep it simple. Use short emails or messages, and day to day conversational language.

3. Ooze confidence. Successful flirts have a positive outlook on life, which is often infectious. You need to transmit the “feel good” factor. Women have always been attracted to confident, optimistic men.

4. Listen to her. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Successful flirts often use their “third ear”. What is that? It is listening beyond what is spoken, or in our case, reading between the lines of her messages. Make her feel like she is interesting and that you are interested in her.

5. Compliment her. And be sincere. Nothing opens doors like making her feel good about herself. Look for something unique or subtle to compliment her about. Beautiful women often grow tired of being told they are beautiful.

6. Avoid sexual overtones. Flirting does not have to include being sexual suggestions and innuendos: this might actually turn her.

7. Send an email after you chat. This ranks right up there with sending a thank you note for a gift and it is vital to successful online flirting.

Take it slow. Don’t try to go too fast. Remember you are only a click away from being shut out. Done right, online flirting can be the first step to a successful and long-lasting relationship.

By: David Kamau

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In the game of sexual attraction what you say isn’t as nearly important as what your body says. In fact if you are so good at silent speech, you can say so much more with your body than words can ever do for you.

Here’s how it’s done.

1. Triangulating Eye Contact

First you need to draw attention to yourself. That can be achieved with fiddling with the collar, necklace or earring, or flicking dust from your sleeve or shoulder, just to name a few. After you catch his or her attention, hold his or her gaze for about 3 seconds, break eye contact downwards to take in the nose, lips and chin.

Triangulating eye-contact communicates the desire to know the other person more intimately (and I am not talking about “sex” people!). Keep in mind that while men generally do not mind prolonged eye contact with a strange woman (in fact they crave it especially if she’s drop dead gorgeous), women on the other hand tend to be rather irritated by prolonged stares of unknown men (even great looking ones).

Also beware of cultural differences.

2. Eyebrow Flash

Eye contact with an eyebrow flash followed by a smile has an even more powerful effect.

Make eye contact, hold his or her gaze for about 3 seconds and break eye contact downwards (very briefly). As you look up again, take note of the chin, lips, nose and work your way up to the eyes. Add in the eyebrow flash and smile.

The message you want to send is “I was only being polite at first…but now that I’ve taken a good look….OH-WOW!”

Shy people can do this one so much better than the more aggressive type because subtlety and modesty comes to shy men and women naturally.

3. Eye Catching

Once you have his or her attention and conversation is flowing, use your fingers to draw attention to your eyes and to keep his or her gaze focused on you – and you alone. This is especially important when the exchange is taking place in cramped or crowded conditions.

Subtly touch your nose or gently rub your cheek making sure your index finger touches the area around the outer corner of your eye; your other fingers pointing on touching the mouth area. This says, “See, we’re having a conversation here”. To create maximum rapport be sure to hold eye contact when the other person is talking, then as his or her gaze begins to wander, bring it back by directing his or her eyes to your eyes and mouth area.

Another thing you can do is hold your face in both hands with the chin resting on your palms and elbows on the table. Gently stroke the area around the outer corners of both eyes with you index or middle finger; the other fingers slightly spread out in a semi-circle around your face. This gives the illusion of a whisper or secret being shared. Very intimate!

And if you wear glasses, slowly take them off, rub your eyes very briefly and put the glasses back on. But please, make sure it’s not so obvious. And don’t poke your eyes red because the apple of your eye has his or her attention drawn to the dude or chic the other side of the room. You have to make the conversation interesting as well, not just trying desperately to mechanically hold his or her gaze.

4. Sideways Glance

This is best achieved when walking away or when sitting with your back turned towards the person you want to be drawn towards you. Slowly look back with partially closed eyelids but drop the gaze the moment after it has been noticed. This gaze drop should be very brief. Look up triangulating your eye contact starting with the chin, lips, nose and working your way up to the eyes. Smile.

Moistening the lips at the same time you drop the gaze increases sexual tension.

For women, the sideways glance combined with a hair toss and parted lips can be very powerful. For men, this with the eyebrow flash is devastating! But you need a little bit of male-confidence not to appear creepy.

5. The Leg Cross (women only)

Entwined legs draw attention to body poise and give the impression of high muscle tone. Crossing and uncrossing legs while being watched by an interested male is a strong attraction signal, especially when you simultaneously hold eye contact, tilt your head sideways and stroke or rub a knee.

The catch here is that the type of men you are most likely to attract with this move are horny men – yeah, the hit-and-run type! So unless you really know the guy and have his stats checked out, keep both your feet on the ground – and together.

And if you’re a couple or even married, these body language moves can work wonders for your sexual chemistry. And when combined with prolonged eye contact and fondling cylindrical object like the stem of a wine glass, straw, pen, pencil or cigarette… Aiyaiyaiyiayai! Houston, We Have a Problem”.

6. The Cowboy Hook (men only)

This “I am all man!” dominant stance calls for extra male confidence to pull it off. Works with thumbs tucked in the belt and the other fingers resting on the sides of the thighs framing the groin area (did I say this calls for extra male confidence!).

You can also achieve the same effect (or close) leaning on a door post or wall with one hand, the other hand inside the pocket, thumb sticking out and pointing towards you-know-where.

Any hand gesture that draws attention to the groin area shows great sexual and social confidence. A lot depends on whether the woman in question approves of a cave-man approach.

Will any one of these eye and body communication gestures net you the man or woman of your dreams?

Not necessarily. Personally, I do not believe that mechanical body language gestures however effortless and flawless can do anything for you other than boost your confidence and get the sexual energy flowing in your body. At the end of the day, its the confident vibes coming from you that start the sexual attraction. Body language can only get the already existing sexual chemistry going. If you can use body language to cause a chain reaction, you’re half way there!

And just as it takes effort and practice to be fluent in any language, you need practice to become fluent in body language. You can practice in front of a mirror or with the help of a supportive friend. You’ll see that as you become more fluent in your flirting and sexual attraction body language, your confidence in yourself as a sexually attractive man or woman increases too.

Don’t take yourself too seriously. The goal is not to become a body language expert but to become sexually confident with the opposite sex. So just have fun with your sexual being. Its yours to enjoy!

You can also use this knowledge to judge whether someone is flirting with you, interested in you and attracted in you. You can also use this knowledge to tell if someone is flirting with you, interested in you and attracted to you. Keep in mind, body language is no exact science.

For graphic illustrations of these very powerful flirting and sexual attraction body language signals, please click here and watch your flirting and sexual confidence hit the roof!

By: Yangki Christine Akiteng

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It is true that body language is a big part of flirting with women. Your body language says a lot about who you are and even what you want. The first thing you should know and understand is that women are susceptible to body language and they are also very intuitive when it comes to reading it. There is an art to body language when flirting with women and this you can learn when you are trying to get the girl.

These top 5 flirting tips for guys that will help you to get noticed and attract women:

1. Use a Big Smile – A great smile can exude confidence, playfulness, friendliness and interest. If you have problems with your teeth then get them fixed and brighten up the room with a big toothy smile! Nothing shows a woman you are confident and secure like a nice big smile. A smile can also show you are in control of who you are and what you are doing.

2. Use the Head Drop – This maneuver is one I’ve used many times and it plays a big part in my success in flirting with women. It’s is a very flirty tactic and is done by meeting the girl’s eyes and immediately dropping your head to the side as if to let her know, you know she is interested so come on over and talk to me. This tends to work better in other countries as most American women are not impressed by this tactic but it still shows some good results.

3. Use a Confident Gaze – This does not mean a meaningless stare or to gawk at her. This is a way of holding a confident stare between two interested individuals. You will find she will either show interest by holding her stare or by looking down. Looking at you for a moment then looking down is a body language cue that she feels attraction toward you. Either way she is showing interest so it is time to approach her and start a conversation.

4. Use Open Body Language – Sitting or standing with your legs or arms crossed shows you are either tense or not interested in any kind of contact! Stop it and stop it now! The best way to show you are safe and friendly is to show you are relaxed. You can show you are relaxed by sitting or standing with your arms open and legs uncrossed as if to tell her you are open to her advances. This tactic for flirting with women will not only bring you the girl you are trying to attract but many others at bars, parties and other social gatherings. You just never know where you will meet the woman of your dreams so use this tactic.

5. Leaning Back When Engaged in Conversation – When you lean back in your seat as you are talking with a woman this shows you are not intimidated and you are confident and relaxed. This also puts her at ease in the conversation. According to dating experts this is the alpha male position that shows you are a self-assured man and ready for anything. This also puts her in a position of having to lean forward toward you making you the chooser. This shows her she has to earn your respect. She will work harder to impress you putting you in control of the situation. Once she’s comfortable with you and a bond is made then you should lean in to show her she has retained your interest. Once you lean forward toward her and she is still there showing interest then you know you have done everything right.

You can generally tell by a woman’s body language and conversation if she is interested in you. Using the flirting tips for guys mentioned above will help you with gaining the interest of a any woman and spark that chemistry that will make you totally irresistible when flirting with women.

By: Randolf Nuvo

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